WHAT HURTS A WIFE ❤️‍🩹💔💘🤦

[Sanyatti]

WHAT HURTS A WIFE ‍🩹

1. It hurts a wife when the husband listens to the advice of other women trying to impress them but ignores hers.

2. It hurts a wife when the husband carries himself in public as if he is not married, as if he is not proud of the love he shares with her.

3. It hurts a wife when the husband would rather watch pornography and touch himself than make love to her.

4. It hurts a wife when the husband would defend the privacy of his phone and attack his wife because of his phone activity as if what is in his phone is more important than his marriage.

5. It hurts a wife when she tries her best to cover the husband only to keep hearing others telling her about the dishonourable things her husband is doing.

6. It hurts a wife when the husband would rather confide in another woman and praise another woman.

7. It hurts a wife when she tries her best to be a good wife, cook for him, serve him, stay sexy for him, stay faithful to him; but he just doesn't notice her effort.

8. It hurts a wife when the husband allows his mother/sister to bully her and micro manage their home.

9. It hurts a wife when the husband uses the secrets she confided in him to insult her, mock her and attack her.

🫂10. It hurts a wife when he expects her to do everything to support his dream and yet he has never cared to find out and support her dreams.

11. It hurts a wife when the husband mistreats her but then he expects great sex.

12. It hurts a wife when she has to beg her own husband for attention and she is reduced to competing against his friends for his priority spot.

13. It hurts a wife when the husband will openly stare and flirt with other women yet he barely notices her beauty, new hairstyle or compliment her body.

14. It hurts a wife when the husband who promised her marriage and growing old together is the one person breaking the home.

D3AR M3N

Treat her like a human being “with a touch of extra”

Be thoughtful and sensitive🫂

Yes, there are times men make comments such as *“we are not magicians to know what you want; women need to say these things.”* Yet, there is a general agreement that the heart grows fonder on thoughtful gestures. Don’t wait until she says them. Pick up conscious and unconscious signals. It might take a while but trust the process.

Compliment her

Men may not know this but there are women who are tired of being told how beautiful they look. But not from the one person they love or the one person they really want to hear it from. Go all out, notice the little things – hair, makeup, shoes, earrings, styling. Also, make sure they are sincere.

Listen and Communicate

There are postulations that men don’t take the thoughts and opinion of their women seriously. Because they have a different makeup and motive, they do not realise that a woman craves and deserves attention. She wants to know that you care about her entirety; her career, friends, opinions, emotions, fears and ambitions. Show that you are thoughtful and sensitive by listening, contributing and communicating.

Respect

Respecting her means respecting yourself as well. Respect her dignity. A man who respects his woman would never cheat on her. Respect her decisions. Respect her needs and wants. The level of respect you have for your woman will be evident in the way to treat and communicate with her and about her.
All that pretty sums it all up.

Brother please change and make your woman happy.🫂

Ladies how is the volume