PROPER BEHAVIOUR ON FACEBOOK FOR COUPLES

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PROPER BEHAVIOUR ON FACEBOOK FOR COUPLES
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1. No flirting on inboxes. Too many affairs start on Facebook inboxes. Keep your Facebook messaging with others mature and remain faithful to your partner/spouse

2. Be Facebook friends with your partner/spouse. If you will be on Facebook for genuine reasons of communication with people, surely what would stop you from being Facebook friends with the one you claim to love?

3. Pay attention to what your partner/spouse posts and give a like, a love or a warm comment. It feels good when the one you love is interested in your public content

4. Keep a good Facebook reputation. You are the ambassador and image of your relationship/marriage. Be mindful of your activity. Mind your language

5. If your partner/spouse tags you to a post, mentions your name on a post or comments on your post; give a response: whether a like, a love or a comment to show your partner/spouse that you have noticed and appreciate. Don't ignore the efforts of your partner/spouse

6. Keep off talking and commenting suggestively on the posts of other people. Be mindful of complimenting strongly people of the opposite gender. Your partner/spouse will feel uncomfortable if you are suggestive and focused on others. It portrays your public lack of seriousness in your relationship/marriage

7. If you are one to post photos, why not post pictures of your spouse? Public affirmation of your love for your partner/spouse enhances confidence, security and commitment between you two

8. Do not engage in things that your partner/spouse might easily and wrongly interpret with suspicion. Have boundaries. Cover your partner/spouse and his/her peace of mind. If need be, explain things to your partner/spouse when he/she feels uncomfortable about an online activity by you or by others concerning you. It takes maturity to be open and transparent

9. Do not post to the world the issues and low moments in your relationship/marriage. Handle matters privately

10. All the personal and intimate moments between you two shouldn't be made public no matter how good they are. Just because something is good and makes you feel good doesn't mean you post it to the world. The world shouldn't know everything. When you get used to over posting and bragging about your good life, you risk cheapening your personal moments. Yes, celebrate your love, but keep your intimate moments special

11. Do not open up multiple Facebook accounts in order to have an account where you are Facebook friends with your spouse and you behave properly, and another Facebook account/s where you do your naughty and mischievous deeds incognito. Grow up. Love is for the mature

12. Make your partner/spouse/children/family proud of the posts you put out. Your social media activity reveals alot about you

13. Remember that if you behave well on social media, that will have a huge positive effect on your one on one interaction with your partner/spouse

© Akello Oliech and Dayan Masinde
 
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